Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Things are looking good!
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Things are looking good!: "As I say that, I worry! Based on life's experience, every time things look good something comes behind you and knocks you off your feet! Ye..."
Things are looking good!
As I say that, I worry! Based on life's experience, every time things look good something comes behind you and knocks you off your feet!
Yes I am seeing a surgeon and may need additional back surgery! Yes I still carry the terminal disease! But the medication is working and except for some minor things that need to be worked out with my doctors all seems to be going in the right direction.
When one is sick, it feels good to say or write such news. I will have more in coming weeks and the Power of Attorney and Five Wishes are being notarized this week just in case things turn around.
Even if all stays well for a while one should always have all documents ready because life changes in a moment.
Dr. Q
Yes I am seeing a surgeon and may need additional back surgery! Yes I still carry the terminal disease! But the medication is working and except for some minor things that need to be worked out with my doctors all seems to be going in the right direction.
When one is sick, it feels good to say or write such news. I will have more in coming weeks and the Power of Attorney and Five Wishes are being notarized this week just in case things turn around.
Even if all stays well for a while one should always have all documents ready because life changes in a moment.
Dr. Q
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Do we worry about gossip!
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Do we worry about gossip!: "Let me tell you as we all who are in the numbers game (so many years to live) do not worry about gossip! Gossip is for those who have time ..."
Do we worry about gossip!
Let me tell you as we all who are in the numbers game (so many years to live) do not worry about gossip!
Gossip is for those who have time in their hands....
So we will listen but as fast forget and focus on the life we have left!!!!
Dr Q
Gossip is for those who have time in their hands....
So we will listen but as fast forget and focus on the life we have left!!!!
Dr Q
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Things could be worse! But HOPE is needed!
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Things could be worse! But HOPE is needed!: "Many times I have heard that if you think life is bad, visit a nursing home or attend a funeral. However individuals who have gone beyond ho..."
Things could be worse! But HOPE is needed!
Many times I have heard that if you think life is bad, visit a nursing home or attend a funeral. However individuals who have gone beyond hope are no longer affected by despair by others and those things can always be worse.
In my short time here on earth I have had 5 friends commit suicide and I myself trying in my teens. I was a very emotional individual and still am. I was lucky having mentors along the way that inspired me and that part of me disappeared. I am forever grateful for those individuals.
You see if you live for the moment and the mindset has no hope there is nothing you can do to stop someone from killing themselves and in the process take others. It seems that even in death individuals want to leave a mark or don't want to go alone!
This is why we all, family members, friends, co-workers, teachers, politicians and on and on have to give people HOPE!
I have my cousin over the other day and he works in a nursing home! I was chatting about all my health issues and at 21 he says, you should see what I work with daily! It helps you appreciate what you have and deal with issues that are not that important.
I thought about what he said! I realized he has HOPE, he has some short term goals and long term goals and though he has faced some challenges, I would not worry about him. When people especially young ones don't have short term or long term goals they tend not o have HOPE!
Thee we need to help and in a positive way provide HOPE so that as a society we do all we can do to avoid what happened in Tucson Arizona!
Dr. Q
In my short time here on earth I have had 5 friends commit suicide and I myself trying in my teens. I was a very emotional individual and still am. I was lucky having mentors along the way that inspired me and that part of me disappeared. I am forever grateful for those individuals.
You see if you live for the moment and the mindset has no hope there is nothing you can do to stop someone from killing themselves and in the process take others. It seems that even in death individuals want to leave a mark or don't want to go alone!
This is why we all, family members, friends, co-workers, teachers, politicians and on and on have to give people HOPE!
I have my cousin over the other day and he works in a nursing home! I was chatting about all my health issues and at 21 he says, you should see what I work with daily! It helps you appreciate what you have and deal with issues that are not that important.
I thought about what he said! I realized he has HOPE, he has some short term goals and long term goals and though he has faced some challenges, I would not worry about him. When people especially young ones don't have short term or long term goals they tend not o have HOPE!
Thee we need to help and in a positive way provide HOPE so that as a society we do all we can do to avoid what happened in Tucson Arizona!
Dr. Q
Thursday, January 13, 2011
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Coming out of hell!
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Coming out of hell!: "You no doubt have wondered, Like I have that everyone good or bad that has had a near death experience always says that it's wonderful in th..."
Coming out of hell!
You no doubt have wondered, like I have that everyone good or bad that has had a near death experience always says that it's wonderful in the other side.
They mention lights, peace, calm, like a perfect place everyone would want to go to!
I have never hear (but maybe there is some experiences) of someone having a near death experience or for a period losing their heart beat that says my god it was hell on the other side.
This brings the question, is there a hell after all? Everyone having these near death experiences can't all be destined to what we call heaven! Some must and need, based on their life experiences be going to hell. So why don’t we hear “on my god, let me change my life because what I saw, was not where I want to go!
Well it's very simple! The near death or limited/no heart beat put's us into a metal state that we experience what we have lived. There is no so called hell or heaven as we are told for "from dust you came and to dust you will return".
Since my two car accidents I have visions day or night and it's of my past future etc. But I know it's all mental for when and if I die, my ashes will be sitting on a mantel keeping an eye on Rob! And if I need to, I will come out of hell just to remind him I am watching!
Dr Q
They mention lights, peace, calm, like a perfect place everyone would want to go to!
I have never hear (but maybe there is some experiences) of someone having a near death experience or for a period losing their heart beat that says my god it was hell on the other side.
This brings the question, is there a hell after all? Everyone having these near death experiences can't all be destined to what we call heaven! Some must and need, based on their life experiences be going to hell. So why don’t we hear “on my god, let me change my life because what I saw, was not where I want to go!
Well it's very simple! The near death or limited/no heart beat put's us into a metal state that we experience what we have lived. There is no so called hell or heaven as we are told for "from dust you came and to dust you will return".
Since my two car accidents I have visions day or night and it's of my past future etc. But I know it's all mental for when and if I die, my ashes will be sitting on a mantel keeping an eye on Rob! And if I need to, I will come out of hell just to remind him I am watching!
Dr Q
Sunday, January 2, 2011
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: When death is missing!
Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: When death is missing!: "If you’re a fan of Family Guy you would have seen an episode when death comes knocking at the Griffin's house and gets hurt and Peter has to..."
When death is missing!
If you’re a fan of Family Guy you would have seen an episode when death comes knocking at the Griffin's house and gets hurt and Peter has to take over for a while! It's an interesting episode and I think about. When does death come calling?
There was a 30 year period in my life when no-one died in my family. Some were at their 90's and no-one passed away. I used to tell people this and they would say man you’re lucky; I have lost so and so over the years. I always wondered why not us! One of my aunts died in the early 70' and then no-one until early 2000.
Since then death has been calling frequently with a number gone and some put on notice. I remember being told when I was a young man by a coworker Ed DeSimone that there comes a time that someone dies almost weekly sometimes daily in your life. He has since passed away of Cancer. He was a great mentor and wonderful human being.
So my point is this! Notice those you love, tell so and if your one of the lucky ones that have no deaths for decades, be thankful because you can be assured death will not be missing forever.
Chat soon!
Dr Q
There was a 30 year period in my life when no-one died in my family. Some were at their 90's and no-one passed away. I used to tell people this and they would say man you’re lucky; I have lost so and so over the years. I always wondered why not us! One of my aunts died in the early 70' and then no-one until early 2000.
Since then death has been calling frequently with a number gone and some put on notice. I remember being told when I was a young man by a coworker Ed DeSimone that there comes a time that someone dies almost weekly sometimes daily in your life. He has since passed away of Cancer. He was a great mentor and wonderful human being.
So my point is this! Notice those you love, tell so and if your one of the lucky ones that have no deaths for decades, be thankful because you can be assured death will not be missing forever.
Chat soon!
Dr Q
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