Love the sinner, Hate sin!

This is a statement I heard a number of years ago from a co-worker of mine who worked for the FAA and was Baptist! This statement was made because of me being gay and you love a gay person but hate the sin of gay sex!

Jehovah's Witnesses have recently accepted the same standing on this subject. They still because of ignorance associate being gay to being an alcoholic, a born evil person with a desire to kill etc. Never mind that science proves otherwise they insist the Bible says so!

So lets quickly review the Bible without prejudice! Lot slept with his daughters supposedly because they though they were the last human survivors to procreate. Solomon had 1000 wife's, I guess to procreate though the main reason was he wanted to! Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed not because of gay people , BUT BECAUSE LOT COULD NOT FIND ONE GOOD HUMAN! Jesus never mentioned anything about not loving gay people and/or the act of homosexuality!

I get the point that man should not lay down with man because they could not procreate (though woman could lay down with woman)! But technology today is what the technology then and today gay men can procreate! I know lots of gay men who have had children from a willing woman , their mother!

Hate the sinner, but not the sin is like "don't ask, don't tell"! It's like when blacks were not allowed in JW's hall's (they don't call them churches)! It's like when they were against organized religion just to become one!

With time they changed and I am happy having a JW family that at least know I can be loved by them. My sexual behavior should be no-ones business as is not if you're a heterosexual, bisexual or no-sexual, as we all become as we age. To use ignorance and thereby keep people from finding love and being happy and supporting heterosexuality with a divorce rate of 60% (gay divorce rate is heading that way) is ignorant.

What they or religion don't talk about is that homosexuality exists in the animal kingdom and even the plant kingdom! It would make sense to stop population growth it would become prevalent in the human kingdom.

Maybe that is why Jesus never mentioned since he knew that was not an issue. Just like embracing a prostitute was not an issue! It's LOVE after all, that he stressed was needed and would show his people to be different!

Dr Q

God forbid you need them, stay away from these Lawyers!

These lawyers are takers. There must be good lawyers out there, but these are not them.

They use the worm hook approach!

They make you feel like they care, get you're money and then disappear.

Stay away from these horrible despicable lawyers!




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Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Born with a self destructive button!

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Born with a self destructive button!: There are good days but those bad days you ask, why were we not born with a self destructive button! Is this all a joke with the Various Go...

Born with a self destructive button!

Born with a self destructive button!

There are good days but those bad days you ask, why were we not born with a self destructive button! Is this all a joke with the Various God's (male/female neither exist) laughing at out misery and pain?

My day consists on living without a purpose, living in pain, living for the day chosen to move on.. But why? Why not just have a button that allows you to move on? Why do we need to tie exhaust extensions to our cars to fall asleep and move on? Why do we need to blow our heads off or take additional humans to move on? Why do we need to suffer and make those around us suffer too when a button could just make it so much easier?

A few years ago I was hit by a Drunk/Drugs Speeding driver. I am sure his joy ride did not have the intention of ending my life as I knew it. I rarely sleep! I have gained like 60 lbs, I can barely walk, I have nightmares (everyone is dead or dying around me! I keep Rob up at night working on my right leg, or giving me medication! I am fucking bored at doing nothing when my life was traveling the world! And etc.

My life now consists of the following:

Lawyers; Dealing with lawyers who in my option have no interest in yore pain, suffering or even justice! You're a case number and when they get to it, they get to it. Never mind it costs to go to a doctor, a hospital and even a ride to the store because I don’t drive. In my opinion they are waiting for you to die so the settlement becomes easier and they still get their cut!

Doctors; I have one or two that care, but the medical services needed here in Tampa Bay can't compare to Miami! There it was yes we know what you have we can fix it. Here it's we can guess and if we can't tell well wait till it falls off or turns black and we need to cut it off. Best of all would be if you died we could close you're case!

Hospitals: Like I have said lately to Morton Plant Mease BOD, it's a hit and miss! You can have a shift from heaven with nurses that care and take extremely good care of you or ones that want to push you along! It seems to be the case wherever you go or whom you meet from lawyers, doctors and hospitals. YOU"RE A BURDEN. You're not looked at as a customer or patient, but a burden!

Family; After a while family (except for my Rob) just moves on! Yes there is one or two who actually call and care. But everyone seems to be facing some type of major illness some terminal! There is no time for Joe! And honestly I don’t like the sympathy call. You're children who one thinks should be there for you are too busy making their own careers and with their friends. One forgets how important parents are. Some are lucky their children care!

Partner; My partner was the Creators way to prepare me for what they could foresee coming. We can't but it's in the cards and I am happy and honestly live for him!

Pain; There are no words defining my bad days! YES, there are good days! I wake up sing and at times feel nothing as it that February 14 2008 day never happened. Then a wrong twist or standing from the chair or a walk with the dog and it's all down hill from there. Being in Tampa Bay where prescriptions are the drug of choice it takes an act of a GOD to get some medication to relieve the pain for a few hours. Yes, they are trying to help an epidemic with our children and causing hell for us all!

Forgiving: I don't forgive that bastard and his friends who killed my life and soul on February, 14 2008!

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: The Loss of a Genius! See You Soon!

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: The Loss of a Genius! See You Soon!: I woke up this morning feeling just a little different! Even though all the same aliments still effect me yesterday a little of me was lost!...

The Loss of a Genius! See You Soon!

I woke up this morning feeling just a little different! Even though all the same aliments still effect me yesterday a little of me was lost! I never met Steve Job's or Bill Gates but indirectly I was very involved in supporting their genius efforts.

My teams tested one of their first computers as I was part of the team that invented the Modem! I tested his software and from the inset it was obvious the kid was a genius. I am not going to talk allot about what he di and what he achieved since it's all out there and the technology everywhere! I believe every human today in one way or another was impacted by Steve Jobs!

My sister is facing terminal cancer. I deal with the thought of loosing her everyday! But it reminds us that we are not immortal! It reminds us to appreciate every moment of life! To appreciate those around us who love us or even those that don't!

You knew Steve was dealing with health issues, but never once did I hear him complain! I am sure as my sister knows his time was limited but he pressed on with unimaginable product releases!

Being just 3 years younger than Steve and dealing with my own health challenges you wonder when you're time is up! But like the genius we lost we keep fighting and moving forward and enjoy life and maybe like him we leave a footprint that impacts someone's life!

See you soon!

Dr. Q

When death comes knocking!

Though I live very close to my mother, for some reason I tend to see her once a week. More often when my sister is here. My sister though dealing with terminal cancer is the joy of the family!

She is my inspiration, she is my love, she is my sister! The same goes for my mother, I never could imagine life without either of them. But I know soon death will come knocking! We all do but we don't talk about it, we talk about the good things in life! We have shrimp and cocktail and enjoy a warm fall or winter day! In Tampa Bay the locals love the fall and winter. It's when we go out and do BBQ's, swim and relax with family.

My sister comes back next month from Boston where she gets treatments for the summer! I long for her return! This time she comes when death may be knocking at my door. I have major surgery on Oct 18 and something is wrong with my right leg so I foresee another back surgery! There is no guarantees and honestly I asked the doctor (seriously) could he just move me along a little faster. Of course he became serious and "no-one dies on my watch" If only doctors could just speed things along!

You see some people keeps the doors shut holding death back! I actually wish many times, I would just fall asleep! Don't get me wrong I don't want to suffer! But that is the point I suffer everyday!

I see young people move their bodies in a way I wish I could. I watch them dance the way I once did! I watch the beauty of a young body and get sad I can barely move mine! Aging is no picnic but aging with pain is no buffet!

I sometimes think the creator allowed us to age to laugh at ourselves! The things people have to do while we age! Superior beings have to be laughing their asses off! I think we are their entertainment!

Kathy Griffin in a skid said she had to pack her ass crack due to the sweat! Been there done that for a diffeent reason! You have doctors probing every part of you're body, that you're no longer embarrassed, You have my dad who no longer knows where to sit, what door to open just exists!

You're children have grown and they rarely call! They have their life's! You're friends are too busy to care, they have their life's! You're immediate family have their pains and aches and thereby in their own world. Those you know that are healthy are happily enjoying life! I do live for my love Rob!

Nevertheless I for one when "death comes knocking". happily say, come in!

Dr. Q