Sunday, December 26, 2010

Oprah a material girl with no time!

I have never been followers not do I even like here. Not that I have any reason to dislike her, but she has always annoyed me and it's going on 25 years. As happy as she is the show is over, no-one could be happier than me that we no longer praise someone who takes from the white while being dishonest.

Rosie started with the giving away of gifts to the audiences and Oprah saw dollar signs and went thought the ninth degree to make sure she goes down in history as giving cars appliances etc. Believe me it did not cost Oprah a dime to give away anything. But it got publicity and her more money.

I just wish she would of adopted children or had some (oh let’s not forget dishonesty on being gay) and given of her time. It's easy to throw money around when it creates m ore for you, but time. Hummmm time with being a mother, helping those in need has no material reward.

I don’t wish her any bad fortune and hope her channel OWN meets its goals. However to me she will go down as a woman who utilized the white people greed for materialistic needs to become successful.

If she was a good woman and utilized her time to help others, she would have stopped Tom Cruise from making a fool of him on her show. But then again that got her more ratings.

Dumb ass people bought her crap and she has become one of the riches people in the world.

Chat soon
Dr Q

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Some goals for 2011 and beyond!

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: Some goals for 2011 and beyond!: "People who have been given a number as to how long they should plan on being on earth at times focus too much on the present and not the fut..."

Some goals for 2011 and beyond!

People who have been given a number as to how long they should plan on being on earth at times focus too much on the present and not the future, since they are lead to believe there is none.

I would disagree with this understanding and definitely would not follow this advice! Now that I find myself on disability, I have to admit looking for positive things to do when you’re dealing with pain is somewhat difficult. However with the assistance of a good doctor you can have a very successful life and enjoy your days here.

I have a few goals for 2011 and beyond! One is to lose some weight! Sitting around the house has not done very much for better health. So as my sister returns next month we plan on walking. Yes I with a cane and with my doctors help with pain medication I know I can do it.

In addition Rob and I will plan some visits to see our children or have them come here. We will visit local places as time allows and I will continue my blog.

We as humans can do two things while awaiting the day! Sit around waiting for it to happen or live as it will never happen. I and I know my sister chose the latter.

Chat soon
Dr Q

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: A champion Moves On, Elizabeth Edwards!

Today With Abilio, A View Of Life Accepting Death: A champion Moves On, Elizabeth Edwards!: "I call her a champion because she championed universal health needs for all American people. She championed Human Rights! Having basic, espe..."

A champion Moves On, Elizabeth Edwards!

I call her a champion because she championed universal health needs for all American people. She championed Human Rights! Having basic, especially preventive heath for everyone should not be a privilege but a right!

Healthy Americans can accomplish more and in the long run it helps the economy. I don’t have the numbers but I can only imagine based on my experience what they are as you look for doctors or charities that can assist with basic needs and as in my case major ones attached to it. I might have been able to continue to work if I had insurance, but without it become impossible.

Some people I believe are born ahead of their time! I believe Elizabeth Edwards was one of those! She lived every moment even when living was hard. I hear this from people dealing with terminal diseases and I hear this fro my sister who is dealing with the same cancer Elizabeth Edwards had.

Here I a at 3 AM blogging on this issue! I lay in bed thinking of what I have left to do and see. I keep wondering when the disability money (what little) kicks in so I can see my children, buy a rose bush and a lounge chair and enjoy the feel of a warm day against my skin.

Like Elizabeth Edwards, in our final years or days we all want one thing around us, family and the feeling of being alive, air, food beauty, laughter, and love.

Chat soon!
Dr Q

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Too much assistance, BUT you must be broke!

One of my concerns through life has always been what happens when you have no insurance? I know certain hospitals have to take care of you when it’s critical but what about preventive care.

Well I received all my answers when I applied for SSDI and found myself without medical benefits. Amazing is the services available from the state and charities to keep you in good health. There is only one catch; you must be at the poverty level. This amazes me since you would think there would be assistance so that you would not have to depend on the government for the basics, food, clothing and a place to live.

The bottom line is that there is very good care available for free, but you have to be broke and dependent on another or totally on the government. This makes no sense but it's that way it's structured. Actually everyone fights to take care of you, i.e. private and government agencies. I am very grateful I have such services!

But as an example because my sister has a house and a little bit of money in the bank (middle income) she qualifies for none of what I get. I see private doctors, mental services, eye care and dental all free. My sister who is returning back here in Jan cannot get anything for free unless she is at the poverty level.

Someday I hope this gets ironed out. Assistance should be provided to avoid people from becoming poor and then a burden on government. Just like prevented healthcare there should be prevented poverty!

Chat soon
Dr Q

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Mothers worry!

The last few weeks have been filled with doctor visits and tests and in all I have my fingers crossed nothing else materializes. I have actually had some good news lately. My hypertension is under control after almost 6 years of uncontrolled rhythm and hypertension. I also had some good new on the heart disease front.

That being said we need to follow up on other challenges I am dealing with in coming weeks and being the holiday season, I think doctors tend to tell you less than the truth. However on the way back from one of my appointments my neurologist said he may be concerned that there may be a tumor in my brain. Of course my mother was with me since Rob had to work and she went ballistic when I shared this with her.

I don’t have many people to talk to on what I am dealing with and I had though she up to date on my various challenges. Well she forgot one of the most important one I am dealing with. My children have their own lives and my daughter refuses to accept it. So I am left with Rob, My sis and brother. All of which are calm and optimistic except my mother.

You see as a parent, I understand my mothers concern! We never want our children to go before us! She is so afraid and worries my sister or I will leave earth before her and this worries her every moment. I have come to appreciate nobody cares like mothers! They brought you into this world and never anticipate leaving after me or my sister! I am so happy to be dealing with these challenges near my mom who worries so much about us and appreciate even more deeply she cares for me and Rob!

Chat soon!
Dr Q